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Post by tnorris1987 on Jan 22, 2018 20:31:57 GMT
Hi there
I have a 1 year old German Shepherd boy. Unfortunately he acts extremely different with my girlfriend when im not there. He is extremely hyper, barks, jumps at her and just wont listen to her. When I’m at home he is amazing, really calm, never barks at me, doesn’t pull on the lead when i walk him, does as i ask.
Does anyone have any tips on what she could do for him to respect her more and listen. I’ve seen it first hand because even if i go for a shower he starts to misbehave. As soon as he hears me come downstairs he calms down, or of hes been misbehaving he’ll lie down and look sorry (damn puppy dog eyes)
My girlfriend loves him but its really hard for her, i just want him to be like he is with me, with her.
Any tips would be much appreciated
Thank you Tom
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Post by cockneychris on Jan 23, 2018 7:51:18 GMT
Hi Tom and welcome to the forum.
I had similar issues with my first dog at around that age, possibly a little younger. I had my dog 6 - 8 months before my girlfriend moved in (she is still my girlfriend after 40 years, they never leave ha!). The dog would stop her from going out of the room and generally moving around the house. It was when I wasn't around and the dog thought 'dads out so I must therefore be in charge as after all I was here before she was'. (dog logic). I told the girlfriend to take charge and she fed him, gave him treats and walked him so his welfare was in her hands so he towed the line from there on in. Also back to basic training. Go right back to the beginning whether your dog knows stuff or not. This is good practice every time your dog has a spell of misbehaviour, or thinks he knows better than you. This will be throughout his life may I add. At this age in particular your dog is becoming an adolescent, (and we all know what that's like), and on top of that he is going through one of the many fear stages that they get in their younger life. On a lighter note your dog will mellow and enjoy life by the time he/she is 3 years old. That was the case with mine it was like flipping a switch to normality.
Tell us more about your dog, his name, colour, pedigree name (if you want to) and post some pictures...we love those. Also tell us more about yourself, what you do, a rough area where you live just in case there are some group walks near to you. You can include some of these in your signature that you will find in your profile. It will help us geriatrics to remember.
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Post by caryll on Jan 24, 2018 10:49:17 GMT
Hi & welcome.
Do you go to any training classes? If so, maybe your gf could start to take him & they can get to respect each other a bit more. If not, as already said, get her to feed him, walk him, train him - even if it means you don't have much to do with him for a little while.
He's at that 'teenager' stage at the moment (knows everything, listens to nothing & nobody understands him!) so he needs both of you to guide him & care for him so that he doesn't start to take the mickey, or even worse to protect your gf too much! Protection when the threat is real is great, but not if it's imagined such as with sudden noises or people knocking on the door etc.
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Post by gtrmacs on Feb 2, 2018 12:52:14 GMT
Hi Tom, welcome - lovely to meet you both (all) I'd get your GF to do his 'basic needs' stuff (feeding and so on) whilst making them into routines, lay down whilst food's prepared/sit before eating and so on. Have a look at NILIF k9deb.com/nilif.htmfor examples. Essentially, your dog needs to trust you both equally and defer to you both equally??
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